9.Be Thoughtful
Being thoughtful simply means thinking of others before yourself. What you say or do will have an effect on others. So it is important that you think before you say or do anything. In this way, you can avoid hurting others' feelings. Moreover, a thoughtless act or remark can spoil a perfect relationship.
Remember these rules. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything. Likewise, if you think what you do will hurt others, don't do it. After all, what goes around comes around.
为别人设想的意思就是在想到自己之前先替别人着想。你所说或所做的每一件事都会对别人产生影响。因此,在你说或做任何事情之前先想一下是很重要的。这样的话,你可以避免伤害到别人的感情。此外,欠缺考虑的行动或言论也可能破坏完美的关系。
记住这些规则：如果你没有好话要说就什么也不要说；同样地,如果你认为你所做的事会伤人的话,那么就别做它。毕竟,种什么因,得什么果。
